What IS That Smell???

“I’ll be back in a little while.” I told my son as I headed out the door to get a few last-minute errands done before my husband would be home from work and dinner was to be ready. I had left a pot of beans on the stove that I had been cooking for a couple of hours on a low heat so that the juices would thicken up nicely as all the seasonings and flavors came together. Along with some potatoes and corn bread and side salad, it would make for a simple but satisfying dinner. Now I know not everyone grooves on this sort of meal, but for us, we quite enjoy it from time to time 🙂 Anyway, I told my son to keep an eye on the beans and just add some water if it looked like they needed it and to call me if he had any questions. He agreed and off I went…

As I returned home and opened the door, I was met with a VERY disturbing smell….the smell of something burning! My 14-year-old son sat on the couch with his eyes glued to one of his favorite after school shows. Running to the kitchen I hollered, “Can’t you smell that???” to which he replied, “Smell what?” I guess the smell came on so gradually, he didn’t even notice that the beans had been forgotten, and as a result, all the liquid cooked right out of them, leaving them to burn up in the pot. Though I was pretty aggravated, I knew he hadn’t done it deliberately. And even though I was now wondering what to do for dinner, I was more perplexed about how he couldn’t have smelled it! I mean, that smell permeated our cabinets for a couple of weeks…every time you would open a cabinet to get a anything, here came the strong odor of…you guessed it…burned beans! LOL!

As I think back to that story, it reminds me of how we do the same thing in our own lives. We can become so engrossed in our daily lives, that it all becomes a big distraction from the more important things in life. Sometimes, we are even distracted from our relationship with Jesus. It comes on so gradually that we don’t even realize the stink of it until it’s too late! Now we may not be getting caught up in full on “sin”! But maybe it’s been a long time since you’ve spent time in His word and prayer. Maybe you’ve gotten so busy with life in general that you don’t have that time with Him on a regular basis like you used to. Maybe you’ve gotten so “self-sufficient” that you don’t think to ask Him for help anymore. The point is, have you gotten so caught up in “life as usual” that you have forgotten your first love? Revelation 2:4 Are you going through the motions, but without the passion and zeal you once had?

We can slip into the thinking that things will take care of themselves, and then, all of a sudden, we realize that there is something really “stinking” in our lives! Is it your attitude that stinks? Do find yourself feeling a little down? Are you feeling the stress of life getting to you? Are you wondering where that sense of peace is?… It can come on so gradually, that we don’t even realize how much we need Him until we have a crisis on our hands. (just like the smell of those beans) But it shouldn’t be that way. Because you see, we have no idea just how much we need Him EVERYDAY!

I’m very thankful that our relationship with God isn’t EXACTLY like that pot of beans…you see, even though there was nothing I could do to salvage those beans, the God we serve is a God of restoration; He is always waiting on us with open arms when we repent and turn back to Him. God knew that there would be things in this world that would serve as potential distractions in our lives. He knows that we have a natural life to tend to; i.e. the laundry, the kids, the job, the dishes, carpool, the car repairs, the traffic, little league, music lessons…etc. The list could go on and on. But here is a promise that Jesus makes to us.

But seek (aim at and strive after) first of all His kingdom and His righteousness (His way of doing and being right), and then all these things taken together will be given you besides.  Matthew 6:33                                                                       

In this passage we know that if we seek after Him first, the other things in our lives will work out better for us. We can have peace in knowing that we can rely on Him. So today, if you find yourself relating to all that’s been written, take some time to stop for a minute. Begin taking that time to tend to your relationship with Jesus, either again, or for the first time. He is always ready and waiting for you with open arms.

Looking away [from all that will distract] to Jesus, Who is the Leader and the Source of our faith… and is also its Finisher [bringing it to maturity and perfection]. He, for the joy [of obtaining the prize] that was set before Him, endured the cross, despising and ignoring the shame, and is now seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:2                   


About tracihaney

Traci is a wife and mother with a strong desire to see the family become all that God intended it to be. She has been married for 28 years to her husband Kevin since she was 18. They have two adult children, daughter and a son as well as a daughter in law and new granddaughter. Traci understands how blessed she is because she also knows the pain and emotional baggage of growing up in a very dysfunctional home and the toll that it takes on a person. Having experienced healing from those past hurts, she desires to help others heal in their own areas of hurt so they can live life to their fullest potential as they impact their families and communities as well. Because of her heart for parenting, she, along with her husband have led parenting small groups for the past five years at Milestone Church in Keller, TX which is their home church. They have recently become Small Group coaches, pouring into other leaders to help them to become more successful as they minister to the needs of their own groups. She has led women's small groups and has been involved in the single mom's ministry of Milestone Church as a blog contributor and speaker. Currently, she is in the process of writing a book on the subject of parenting and bringing up children who will continue as Christ followers even after they leave the home. With a strong desire to see people thrive in all areas of their lives, she writes this blog to offer encouragement, hope and sometimes, humor, for others. View all posts by tracihaney

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